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Why don't I get turned on with my boyfriend?

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Question - (10 June 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 11 June 2012)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I get really wet when I watch porn and masturbate but I don't with my boyfriend and we always have to use lube. I don't understand why. What can I do to be naturally as wet with him?

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (11 June 2012):

person12345 agony auntFirst off, maybe you should think about cutting back on/cutting out the porn? You can become desensitized to real people. Human brains just don't cope well with that extreme stimulation. You might want to stop masturbating for awhile too. Check out this website for more info:

http://www.yourbrainonporn.com

Second, what do you do to be turned on? Many/most women require clitoral stimulation. Do you have him use his fingers, have you tried having him give you oral first? Whatever you do when you masturbate, have him do that on you. Show him exactly how you like to be touched and have him touch you like that.

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