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30-35,
anonymous
writes:well, Im seventeen, and Ive never had a girlfriend. in fact, ive only had like two or three girls that were just friends. I dont know what it is about me that makes me feel so hopeless around them. all the other guys at my school can talk to any girl about any thing without pressure, and the girls always seem to just flock to them and talk to them. If I have a conversation with a girl, its because I started it and they never really want to talk to me. The only reason any girls ever talks to me is if I have an answer to a question that she was talking to a friend about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2008): If you want people to talk to you start by listening first.Ask a girl "Hey how did that test go?".When she tries to answer,listen sincerely and genuinely .People love talking to good listeners.Slowly as you listen,you will find places to pitch in.Watch the conversation flow.
Being interesting and a smash hit has nothing to do with looks.Its just your confidence that matters.Build up on your self esteem.Wake up your sense of humor.Learn to laugh at yourself.Girls love guys with a good sense of humor.Learn to love yourself.Others will start loving you.All the best.Take care.
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reader, Oceania  +, writes (23 November 2008):
 how do you look? do you have a lot of boy friends? are you popular? do you really have a high self esteem? i need more details for a better answer.
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reader, kelleeashton +, writes (23 November 2008):
 girls love guys as friends. and they aren't as mean as you probably think. act like you are the coolest thing in the world and you will be. just have confidence. =) good luck dear. and find girls and talk to them. make jokes. smile at them. if you can make her laugh you will be her best friend.
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