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writes:my boyfriend said he loved me only two months into the relationship over a message. He then said it over the phone and then said it a few times in person. Now he doesn't say it in person but only over messages. Before when I used to leave him in the morning he would say it, now he doesn't! But says it an hour later over a message!! We've been together 3 months and I would say we are getting a lot closer. He does little things for me which make me feel as though he does have strong feelings for me. We are together a lot too. And he is so affectionate with me that I feel so loved when I am with him. If he goes to the supermarket he will always remember me and buy something that I like.about 3 weeks ago I had a bit of a PMT meltdown and got insecure and he reassured me that he absolutely loves me and to believe him as he doesn't say that to hardly anyone. He also said he thinks about me all day while he is at work. Since then he hasn't said it in person. ????? why could this be??
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reader, TomWilkinson +, writes (30 October 2012):
 As it's still early days in the relationship I wouldn't worry too much about this. I'm the kind of person who has a terrible habit for falling in love with the wrong person, to quickly. As a result, I've stopped myself from saying it, no matter how much I may think or feel it.
Give him a little time, he could just be worried that he said it too soon. At least he said it at least once, that's a good sign!
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (29 October 2012):
 Once we guys get a girl hooked... we believe that we can slack off on those little things that we had to do to get her (your) interest in the first place..
As long as we are getting s*x.... we're OK with things. If you want to hear those three special words, you MAY have to get yourself another (new) B/F and go through the cycle again. Remember (next time) to RECORD IT, so that you won't suffer the problem that you noted herein...
Good luck....
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