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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:so I've been with my boyfriend 11 months now .. but !at the last 5 months he stopped calling like he used to before and from maybe 3 weeks now he stopped texting me also unless i text him first .. we started seeing each other from 3 months past every 2 weeks or 3 weeks i see him one time and he treat me like a queen when am with him .. i really miss him when am not with him i told him y u stopped texting me like before? and he simply answered me 'I LOVE U' what should i do with this 8 letters when i'm hearting from inside =(
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reader, oldbag +, writes (8 June 2013):
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Keep your life SO busy that when he does want to see you, you don't have time. Tell him no, sorry but I am free next Saturday so can see you then.
Teach him not to take you for granted.
Let him text you first next time too. If he does love you then he will make an effort to see you more and communicate better. Make him work for your love.If he doesn't then dump him
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2013): All relationships reach a peak then level off. Things start out hot and heavy early in a new relationship; then after a while, guys don't feel like answering a stream of text messages from their girlfriends. He can't keep it up forever, and he shouldn't have to. He'll even get tired of constantly texting how much he loves you. Look at the old messages when you need a fix.I think that's more along the lines of teen puppy-love behavior. Come on, really??? Try not to be so needy. You're not a little girl, and the frequency of text messages doesn't measure how a person feels about you. Maybe he'd appreciate you being more of a woman. Try spending more quality time together and enjoying his company in person. You don't have to track him down with your phone every hour of the day. Leave him alone and give him a chance to miss you. He's too nice to admit it, but you're getting on his nerves.Time to grow up.
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