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writes:I've been dating this guy and it'll be 6 months this coming saturday (10-20-07). Well...Lately, I really just feel worthless. He doesnt seem to want to have sex with me any more. We'll have sex when he wants it. Any time i have ever tried starting the act, i get turned down. I give up. I give up trying, i hate being turned down. We might have sex once every few weeks. And of course it is always when i have to have my damn period, so he always wants to get me from behind.Whats going on? WHy doesn't he want me anymore? Can he not make love to me anymore, looking at me and my face? WHy does it have to be from behind? IS he imagining someone else?
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reader, baby duck + ♥, writes (18 October 2007):
 You're mixing up too many things here. First of all, your cycle is not a big deal. I can see why it's an issue if you wanted oral that day, but not for sex. Second of all, a lot of guys like it from behind and it's not because they don't want to see her face; it's because the angle feels good. Those are little issues.
BIG ISSUE: is there any verbal communication going on? If your feeling good about yourself and your relationship is contingent on regular sex, there is not too much to this relationship. Jokes about guys wanting 'only one thing' aside, maybe he's asking himself if that is all there is to your relationship.
If you two can't talk about this, than there are deeper problems than sexual frustration. Talk to him. If that gets you nowhere, move on.
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reader, lisa21  +, writes (18 October 2007):
i had a simillar prob with one of my ex's and i found out he was stealing from me, using my money and spending it on other girls so watch out for that one, but it may not be that at all, he may just have alot of things going on in his head, we all know most men have trouble opening up,
have you tried talking to him and telling him how rejected he is making you feel?
i feel sorry for you, its not nice i know but try asking him what's wrong. x x x
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