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writes:hey guys just a curious questioni left a shirt of mine in my partners car for quite some time, and today when i went to his new place, he kept it in his bed under his pillow. would anyone know why he does it? Occasionaly i forget to take things with me home and forget say a stocking and i find it in his bed instead of where i left it, say on a shelf etc. he says he misses me as soon as i leave could this be why or is there a guy reason for this? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2011): My fiance goes on business trips pretty frequently and I always have him leave an unwashed t-shirt behind...this way the scent of him remains on it. It's comforting.
I guess it might sound strange - but it makes sense.
I don't think you need to be creeped out by it - but flattered. He likes having you around :)
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reader, Blonde68  +, writes (24 February 2011):
Awwww I think that is lovely.... In fact you brought it back to mind when I was your age and with my first boyfriend... I remember him having an item of clothing of mine and doing the same, and I used to have a scarf of his.
It makes him feel close to you...
Dirtball... you are soooo naughty with that last comment hahaha...
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reader, iloveblue  +, writes (24 February 2011):
 I agree with Dirtball.
If you feel creepy about this, tell him it bothers you. But to be honest, and as your boyfriend said his reasons to you, he does seem to really miss you by doing this. So feel lucky instead, it is a sign that he wants to be reminded of you and an indication that he loves you.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (24 February 2011):
 By the way, if the stockings are a little crusty, then he's using them for something else.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (24 February 2011):
 Yep to all dirtball said.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (24 February 2011):
Perhaps he likes having something of yours close to him as a reminder of you. Perhaps it smells like you and gives him something good to think of while he drifts off.
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