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writes:Well I'm 13 years old(girl) and I need some advice. This boy in my class(13) likes me and he asked me out. I said yes because he is so sweet. I like him too because he is really nice. So we started going out. But whenever I go out at recess, he ignores me. He never talks to me anymore. What's the problem? Reply to this Question
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reader, Aunt Sar-Sar  +, writes (28 March 2008):
Hii...
I am in the same situation. My boyfriend and I sit together at lunch and sometimes in the mornings before school starts and are sometimes around each other at break, but we, like, totally and completely ignore each other. On the phone, he is really talkative, though. I asked him why he doesn't talk
to me at school, and he said that he just doesn't want a lot
of people eavesdropping and then going and repeating all the
things he says. He has also admitted to a few of our friends
that he just still feels really shy when we're together in person. My guess is that maybe your boyfriend is feeling the
same way. I'm going to tell you exactly what my friends told
me: give him time. Really, that's the only thing you can
do. When he feels more comfortable, he'll open up to you
more. I know it's a pretty frustrating position to be in (do
I EVER!!!), but just roll with it. Or, if sitting around and
waiting on him isn't your cup of tea, try talking to him. Be
casual about it; don't make a total big deal over it. Remind
him that he doesn't have to worry about you judging him and
that he can always trust you and all that good stuff, and
see where that gets you. Good luck...hope I helped.
GoD bLeSs!!!
x's, o's, and much, much 3,
~SarSar~
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female
reader, Gena Bullock +, writes (27 March 2008):
 Honey, this is soooooooo cute...you say, "He asked me out so I said yes and we go out at recess." I remember those days....
Communication is the key. Talk away......nothing more.
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female
reader, daniellexxxx  +, writes (27 March 2008):
 he may just be shy or waiting for you to talk to him so go over and make a conversation good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2008): He is nervous just go talk to him
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