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writes: Hey ThereI was with my first love for 6 years, we were like two peas in a pod. We had a fab relationship. All within one month we went to go buy a house together, he wanted to get engaged, he showered me with gifts for my B'day and then we went to Paris. Three days lated he ended it and used that great one liner "its not you its me"Funny enough he got a new girlfriend very very quickly and then they got a flat together. I was devestated, he was my life. I was sick to the stomach, i never thought in a million years he would do anything like this to me. I honestly believed i could never look him in the face again.But as we know time is a great healer and i did move on. I got on with life. Because i had been with my first love from suh a young age i didnt think i would cope being single.....well i love being single, i made loads of new friends and i had a social life. The thing that gets me i have seen him a few times and i said hi to him , he just looks right through me. I seen him today and waved, he just turned his back on me, its like a kick in the teeth. Really hurts. Its not that its nearly a year he ended it. Why does he ignore, what have i done wrong for him to be like this, he wasnt just my boyfriend he was my best friend too. Its mad how you can be so in love with someone for 6 years and then they walk past you on the street. Its not that its nearly a year he ended it. So why cant he be polite and say hello?Thank you for listening
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2005): Youve done nothing wrong here..he probably is feeling some mixed emotions..if his new relationship never worked out how he hoped he could be feeling regret then there is guilt on how he treated you and jealously that you are doing well and can move on without him in your life.
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reader, wishes +, writes (28 October 2005):
 It sounds like he is feeling guilty and he doesnt know how to be sorry for how hes hurt you. I am so happy that you have gotten on with your life and you are happy in being single. You cannot let his immaturity bother you as much as it is. Dont take it personally, you havent done anything wrong. You can keep smiling or waving, but just ignore it if you get no response. His loss by the way. It sounds as though hes missing out on a great girl! Best Wishes x
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reader, Chado_Neyna +, writes (28 October 2005):
personally i think hes annoyed your doing so well without him. he left you you got on with it you made friends you go out & ill bet you look great aswell, he probably expected you to phone crying beging pleeding with him to come back & when he never got it & you did well without him he prob feels bad coz youve done well & look good & he could have had that, but lost by being an idiot:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2005): I suspect he is still in love with you, and fears that if he talks to you, he will only hurt you again, and hurt himself. Sometimes it's best to let sleeping dogs lie. Leave him alone, and remember the good times. It's obvious that you have recovered from the split, and now have a great life that you have defined. You don't need him. That is a great position to be in when dating. Good luck.
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