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writes: My girlfriend and I got together 5 weeks ago. At first it was absolutely amazing, we could not get enough of each other and missed each other terribly when we were not together. Previous to us getting together she had just split from her boyfriend - a dead end relationship. 5 years ago she left her husband of 7 months for another guy who treated her really really badly. He ended up going back to his wife. He continued hassling her even tho he was back with his wife. Even when we started seeing each other he was hassling her with unwanted calls and texts etc. She feels confused with me and is obviously scared that I will hurt her. I have for once in my life found my "Miss Right" and would do anything for her. She says that she feels totally lost in her life. I have given her space and she is on holiday with her mum at present. She texts me all the time saying how much she misses me. Then she says she does not know what she wants, as one minute she wants me then she doesn't. I am now confused and am hurting so much. She has said in the past that she feels as if she does this in order to test me out. I have fallen for her. She says that she has fallen for me, but the next day she is confused again. If any ladies can advise me on what to do, I would be really appreciative.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2005): sit her down, tell her how you feel about her, but make it clear your hurt and cant go on like this! tell her to let you know when she knows exactly what she wants but untill then the relationships off. leave her to think for a few days. thats my advice! she may be hurt but thats no excuse for hurtin you too! dont be unhappy just for her. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2005): She is on the rebound, and has not healed yet from that prior relationship. She is not prepared, emotionally, to start a new relationship with you, or anyone else. Give her time to heal, and encourage her to do whatever she must to put him behind her. She has to learn to like herself again, as a single person, understand in her own mind what went wrong with the past relationship, decide what she wants to do differently when she dates another man, and then reach the point in her life where its fun to be in love again. I suspect you came along too soon, and are the victim of timing. If you can wait for her, do so. She sounds like a keeper.
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