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anonymous
writes:help how do i stop being so insecure! I am very much in love and trust my boyfriend and vice versa. The thing thats sending me nuts is whats on his phone. Loads of our intimate videos but its the two he has of a model obviously pornographic. He ensures me he loves my body etc etc and i do believe him. But then my mind starts working and bang i start thinking he wants the thin beautiful girl. Yes blah blah talk to him etc i have but its not working!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks cd ill give it a try.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (6 February 2007):
 You can't stop your brain thinking these things. We all think them. Being women it seems we're indisposed to go a bit nutty overthinking these things. You just have to keep pushing them back out of your head. Easy? No, easier with practise? Most definitely!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes i know all that but how can you physically stop your brain thinkin daft things. im not a headcase and doctors wouldnt make me feel at ease.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007): Mayvbe because you know a guy who watches porn doesnt mind exploiting the victims of childhood sexual abuse (most female porn stars were) Also maybe you know that he needs to look at other naked females to be sexually satisfied
Maybe you also know that he cant value the gift of your body that you share with him if he is happy to get off to any old naked girl.....
An insecure girl is one who thinks she needs to put up with her partner watching porn
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reader, cd206 +, writes (5 February 2007):
He's told you he doesn't. Porn is all about fantasies. You can never be as "perfect" as the porn girl unless you buy your own personal airbrusher. Real girls just aren't like that. He loves you for yourself. Try not to worry. Your boyfriend sounds like a great guy with a weakness, nothing more.
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