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writes:I am dating a older man who has a very nice 21 year old daughter, I have four kids from my previous marriage. And this is my first serious relationship. I have noticed over the 6 months we have been together that he is very hard with my daughter she is 6, and what I mean is boundries something she does need and I agreed. But I noticed that he makes comments about his daughter and how wonderful she turned out and how my three older boys all have problems, which is true but hurtful to me. I made a comment the other day that we should introduce our older kids and he came out with my daughter would never be interested in boys like yours, it was hurtful and I didn't mean it in that way. Yesterday his daughter was letting him have it about his smoking and when I went into the restroom I heard him apologize like a child saying I am sorry honey, this to me is weird. He has raised her since she was 11 with no mother and I like her it just feels weird to me. Please give me advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (14 May 2009):
 You need to talk to him and tell him not to insult your parenting! He needs to see what he does wrong and how it makes you feel, the the two of you need to come up with a plan to phase out his unacceptable behaviour. As for his daughter, that's his buisness, if he wants to act this way it is non of your concern! X
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