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Why does he show interest only when I distance myself?

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Question - (16 February 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female Australia age 30-35, *abrena writes:

I have another post so i wont repeat myself, my ex came bk to the country and because of the problems i was having with him i didnt meet him straight away anyways i finaly met with him after 2weeks to get my money bk and the meeting turned out into a date. i didnt really mind anywys we had fun jst a nice night out together we didnt make out or anythng until the end where we just kissed (the best kisses i have had actualy). Anyways i stoped contacting him it was always him calling and i let him do that by not changing my number. I stil love him but what i realised is as soon as i communicate with him or be kind to him he will start ignoring me. but when i ignore him and dont show him any interest he will start calling 24/7 wanting to meet which i dnt allow and so forth, but if i contact and all and e.g i say lets hang out he wont show interest or be very very late, if i call he will cut the convo short and say i will cal u bk which he will bt the convo wil be short and boring. I more than happy to be single bt he obviously will ocntact me wen he knows i have distaned away and start acting like we are an item am so confused. I love him but if i show it he will be a dick wt do i do should i just be with him by always not calling and not asking him out as he will be doing tht and making me feel like a queen or should i jst call and keep askng hm out which wil be rejection after rejection i am so confused, i love him and want to keep hm bt i always believe in two way communication wt would u say or do guys/girls/woman/men? help anyone???

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