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writes: Him and i had a bit of a casual "relationship" for a while and it was fun at the time. That ended just over a year ago. He's got a girlfriend now and i've recently started dating somebody new too. Since i told my "ex" that i'm dating someone he's been bringing up our past. We talk on Facebook quite regularly and we had a conversation the other night that went like this:Him: For example, when we were sleeping together, just because we were having sex that didnd't mean its all I wanted, it was one of the things I wanted, that makes sense?Me: Ok. Yeah I understand.Him:What do you think about mine and your sexual relationship?Me: I don't know Him: Ok, what are your thoughts then?Me: I don't know. It was just sex. We likes it so we kept doing itHim: OkMe: What do you think Him: The same. We got on REALLY well and I really, really enjoyed the sex Me: why'd you askHim: For reassurance, I guess? That you enjoyed being with me, and that I'm good in bed?Me: You know I did but that kind of relationship wasn't going to last forever.Him: Yeah, i guessToday he was online so I decided to just ask him why he kept bringing up what we used to do:Me: You know when we spoke the other day and you asked what I thought about our past "sexual relationship"?Him: Yeah?Me: Why did you want to know? You've asked me a few times and I'm just curious why. The real reason whyHim:I just want to make sure that you've enjoyed it, because I have, and I just want to make sure that I was a good sexual partner :)Me: Ok. It's just I told you before that I did but then you brought it up again the other day. Did you expect me to say something bad or something? If you want to ask just askHim: No, that was itMe: OkShould I have brought it up? When I told him I have a boyfriend that's when he started asking.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2011): he's just feeling insecure cos now you're with another guy you could be comparing and making notes.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (16 December 2011):
 That sounds like one of the "conversations" that you can put behind you and never think of again.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2011): To be honest I only needed to read the first two sentences to know he's probing you to see if you enjoyed sleeping with him.
I would bet my house on it being a case that he's feeling insecure about his sexual prowess with his current girlfriend. It sounds to me like it's not going too well in that department.
No point in being cynical here, but you told him he was good, that's that, it would be highly inappropriate to keep bringing this up. I'm pretty sure your boyfriend wouldn't be too happy knowing you're talking about having sex with one of your past partners.
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