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writes:on the way to dinner tonight my bf kept asking me questions about the last guy i was with 2 yrs ago like did u think he was hot? Blah blah anyway i answered but he has asked these questions many times before and i didnt want to talk about it so i asked can we stop talking about this. He said ok then continued to vring it up. I had to ask about 5 times and he said ok one wore question, things like how much did u kiss, how much of his saliva did you have in ur mouth, stupid things like that so i got angry, then he gets angry cos i dont want to talk about it anymore, when i have answered these questions b4. Should i have to answer them over and over and talk about it when i dont want to? He knows i dont like talking about it because i feel stupid cos that guy used me too. Reply to this Question
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (12 July 2009):
 He seems extremely obsessed with your past. The amount of saliva involved? Even the idea that a person would keep track seems insane.
Some guys can't stand the thought that their gf is not a virgin. They don't want the competition or just don't like the thought that someone else has been there. But this seems to go even further.
Sounds like you got yourself another price winner.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2009): Maybe hes had a bad relationship in the past and is now quite paranoid? No you dont need to talk about anything you dont want to. Just ignore him the next time he asks. If he pokes you, just tell him you told you him you wont talk about it anymore and just walk off or keep ignoring him if he mentions it again but speak to him when he doesnt mention it. he should get the message on how serious you are there.
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