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*aime90
writes:my bf has a 2yo daughter. Its hard for me b/c he makes me feel like i dont belong (never informing me if she is coming over etc) but i try my hardest. I read her stories, dress her sometimes, help with making her food and bathing her but he says i dont try at all. All he see is negative like the way i dont like her playing with my things like my headband when she was nearly breaking it or my lip cream she gets dirty, so i take them off her. He thinks i should let her play with all my stuff cos she is a child, but i just think she has so many toys. Also she doesnt listen to anyone and if i tell her no when she is being naughty he thinks im being cold, when really i have a younger brother and a niece and nephew i try to dicipline. Am i being cold? Or he doesnt want to dicipline her? Reply to this Question
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reader, sugar_sugar  +, writes (12 July 2009):
 I don't think it is unreasonable that you do not wish for your items to become the toys of a child. It sounds like he is on the path to spoiling her. It is only natural that a child learns some boundaries regarding the possessions of others.Does he not think she should have boundaries? Surely he has his own possessions he doesn't want broken or dirtied by her?
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