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Why does everything get messed up but he keeps coming back?

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Question - (9 February 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 February 2012)
A female Ireland age 26-29, anonymous writes:

There's this fella and we have a weird relationship. We're really good friends but we fight so so much and we're like this uniffical couple aswell. We fall out all the time, but we Always work it out. He always comes back. We be great for a few weeks and then we go back to fighting and barely talking again. The last night we had sex, and it was do lovely. He put his hands through my hair and stroked my face. And afterwards we lay there and just talked about everything. Sounds like it means something to him, doesn't it ? But why does it always mess up, and then him coming back :/ ?

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (9 February 2012):

janniepeg agony auntWhy would you refer to him as good friend when there is sex and intimacy. Maybe that's where the tension lies. Only you could tell why you are arguing so much. He keeps coming back because there is passion and unpredictability. Focus on your feelings and see what triggers those bad feelings before reacting next time.

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A male reader, Ayan Ganguly India +, writes (9 February 2012):

Ayan Ganguly agony auntYou see all people have different stories and may be THIS is your love story...don't worry about the little fights that you are...fights at times makes the bond stronger...but if it indeed is bothering you,sit down with your partner and talk about it..hope i've been able to help you a little...all the best

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