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writes:why does a man suddenly go off sex, the first year was the best, now nothing for 4 months, is it possible to have a relationship without, i am getting through a lot of batteries lol Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2012): The honeymoon period is over OP and this may well be his normal sex drive.
All you have to do is ask him really.
Some guys are just like that, they put in the effort at the start because it's expected of them then when they have you they're done.
Buy a solar powered vibrator or something hehe.
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reader, eek +, writes (16 April 2012):
 personally i have always needed sex. Apart from when i found out my ex was cheating. However from reading lots on here i have put a list together of possible causes that appear to effect peoples sex drives.
Stress.
Problems in the relationship.
An increase in weight of either party.
Cheating emotional or physical
Too much masturbating.
Poor hygiene. (especially if you want the partner to perform oral)
Health issues (can cause a sudden drop in sex drive)
Lack of communication in the relationship of feelings/needs etc.
If your wanting to get your sex life back on track. Firstly try talking to him. Let him know you miss the closeness and affection. Ask him if there is anything wrong ect. If all sounds ok. Plan a "date" have a day if possible to yourselves, do breakfast in bed followed by some relaxing activity you can both enjoy. Go for a long walk (good exercise but also get oxygen pumping round the body) on this day make a real effort with cloths, maybe tease a little. Finish with a good meal and then show him what beauty the cloths are hiding. Try to get him to make the next move from there. Good luck. :-)
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reader, mr.goodguy  +, writes (16 April 2012):
 I can tell you the only reason I would not want sex would be if she was not freaky or good in bed ..or if I was not feeling well ?but 4 months lol never
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (16 April 2012):
 what's changed in the relationship besides sex?
did you move in together?
did he lose or get a job?
illness?
injury?
is he your age?
HAVE YOU ASKED HIM what's going on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2012): After such a short time of being together no sex means he no longer fancies you
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2012): Are u both married? First year is always the best but men get bored of seeing the same pussy BUT regardless of that he'll still have sex with it. Unless of course he's having an affair? Naturally and biologically a Man never stops producing sperm , there is no male menopause , unlike woman unfortunately thus technically he can still be aroused and have sex even at 100 years of age.
At your age? My advice is get a new MAN before your BIOLOGICAL batteries run out and to stop u needing the other batteries ;) .
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