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Why do these guys abuse???

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Question - (9 August 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2010)
A female South Africa age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Why do men abuse little girls? what makes a man abuse someone? i was sexually molested from the ages of 5-8 and then again from 12-16. why did these people abuse me in each case and why would this have happened during both time periods? i blame myself for what happened but would like to know why they would abuse someone? it really screws you up...

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (10 August 2010):

Moo's Mum agony auntOften abusers are abuse victims themselves. They were damamged and then repeat the cycle. It's sooooo important that you NOT blame yourself for this. The people who do this to children are sick and need help. You really need to seek some therapy for this to help heal from it. All the best doll you will be ok.

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