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writes:Why do some (most) men want soo much to have sex with many different women when they already have one beautiful, loving, sexually adventuress woman who loves them? My (now ex) boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me with several women. All just quickies, no romantic attachments whatsoever. I am very sexually open to anything he would want, I know he didn't do anything differently w/them that he wouldn't do with me, and not to sound conceited but I am very attractive and considerably phsyically more attractive than anyone he cheated on me with.I thought our relationship was great but do some men just have to have sex with many women for some reason? And WHY??? Why when you already have someone perfectly fine!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010): in my opinion i think most men do cheat, i have friends who have been cheated on all the time, even i have.
i think some boys just dont care these days and think its ok to cheat the saying: (what she doesn't know wont hurt her) but they always get caught in the end. i know alot of guys who have cheated on there partners even if there partner is pretty. most men do also cheat on there pretty partners with ugly women, i dont know why they do it, but they do. also though there are some nice men out there (not alot)and not all boys are the same, i think who ever has found the nice ones are lucky because there aren't many left of them.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 April 2010):
You just picked the wrong guy. Most men don't cheat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2010):
Why do so many women seem inherently incapable of being happy with one man? So many women's core framework of attraction seems to be geared towards two different men, one for sex and the other for daily living support. It's not fair or sensible at all, is it?
It's the same reason why men can have a "perfect girl" and still want to cheat all the time. Plain old reproductive urges.
These things are frustrating but lots of men and women still don't ever cheat on anyone. They are out there.
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reader, lovelovejuice +, writes (2 April 2010):
Because... Different women possess different characteristics (tightness, wetness, pinkness, scent, taste, ability, size, looks, sound, pheromones, adventure...) and different scenerios yield different feelings and even psychological results (excitement, risk, self-resentment, relief, lust, freedom, fantasy...)
Think about it... if relationships were truly perfect and gave people what they want all the time, then no one would ever cheat. Statements to the effect of "I don't understand why my partner would cheat - I gave them everything they could ever want" lack perspective; and inherently, support.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (2 April 2010):
 In my experience, most men are faithful, and it's often the woman that cheats..
Care to explain how that one works for me?
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reader, Miamine +, writes (2 April 2010):
I have a feeling that some men cheated long before we even had television....
Stop thinking about him, what he dose is beyond our comprehension, and it's probably beyond his own. You need to concentrate on what you want.
Some men cheat, some men don't. Some people have sex before marriage, some wait until their wedding day. Some people like strawberry ice-cream, some like vanilla. People are all different, the trick is to find someone whose taste are acceptable/similar to your own.
You cannot make a serial cheater faithful. It's nothing to do with you, that's the way they are. Maybe something happened in their childhood that turned them away from commitment, maybe they've seen too many divorces and become cynical. Maybe they were never meant to be with one woman until the day they die. Who knows, it would take a years of counselling and psychology to find out the reason why people do what they do.
Concentrate on you, what you want and what's right for you. Live your life well, get confidence, hobbies, values, strong friendships and interests. You'll soon find a man who suits you more and acts the way you want him to.
All people are different, some people hurt, some bore, some get angry, some cry, some cheat and some turn away from sex. Worry about what your doing, be the best person you can be and let the world take care of itself.
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