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writes:probably been asked a million times... but here it goes, ok... why do so many men prefer big breasts? i don't get it... it's the same shape as small ones, only bigger in size, but it's basically the same... two lumps of fat... they're for feeding babies... etc.well, you probably guessed it, i'm small chested. i know a lot of men like smaller chested women... but my question is why the majority like them bigger... if you see in the media... especially ads targeted to men... it's all about big breasts... lads mags... have you ever seen a glamour model with b cups? plus all my friends seem to lose their mind at the sight of big breasts and even my boyfriend prefers them... like of course they will all look/stare/ogle/comment if they see big breasts whether fully clothed or bare... and also men of all ages... from teenagers to old men...please don't tell me to find a guy who likes small ones... i haven't met any and besides i love my boyfriend... the question is what is so great or so different about big ones that small ones just don't live up to? also don't compare with penis size... you don't see huge penises in billboards... men aren't as "exposed" as women... so you don't notice the difference from man to man with just a look... their private parts are really literally *private*... plus most women don't care or say big penises hurt... just saying... this is about men and breasts not about penis size...also please don't trash big breasts... i've seen a lot of posts like these and all people do is name the disadvantages of big ones... and that's not the idea... big breasted women have feelings too... so be respectful...thanks,- confused smallie
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reader, ahaa  +, writes (31 October 2009):
 Girl, let me tell you... I feel ya!
Am 17 and an A cup myself. ;)
Straight-up answer to your question:
It's cause the media basically only puts big boobs in the lads mags and shit. It's an advertising scheme. Bigger things grab attention more. Just like a fat guy is more noticable than a skinny guy. Haha. I probably sound bitter. Probably because I am. But not just for the side of small boobs.
I KNOW the big chested don't always get it easy. Most of the ones I know- it's sad to say- wear their confidence in their chest. While we small-chested might get made to feel undesirable or something because of our lack of boobage- they can get made to made to feel that their big boobs are the only desirable thing about them. I can safely say this because I have 2 best friends who are exactly like that.
And while, my bf stares into my EYES when he tells me he loves me, they don't always get so lucky. :(
I AM gonna tell you to look out for those small boob loving fellas though.
Cause I know there ARE guys out there who know how to love and appreciate smaller breasts... and the sorts of big breasts that are actually 100% HUMAN and come with the rest of the big-boobed people package. Probably the guys who are cool enough not to wank over playboys every night- cause they actually get out and get the real stuff haa.
But back to small boobs...
Small boobs are so seriously underappreciated these days and we small breasted get constantly attacked with all the time and have it practically shoved in our faces that big breasted is better rararar.
But I'm just like mmmm can b bothered listening to all that shit! Do I want to believe I'm less desirable to guys cause like Oooh I'm already 17 and have only A cup boobs? Should I really go along with the media and be all like awww I'm so unlucky... so undesirable to guys... why can't I have big boobs cause that would make me a better person...
Hmmm. Don't think I really fancy that attitude haha. Why? Cause it's kind of all complete bullshit!
ANd also just as it's unfair to myself, it would be completely unfair to my amazing bf.. who loves me... just as I am. ;)
So I appreciate and love my small boobs.
And you should too.
You own small boobs.
So OWN THEM. ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2009): I may be a man however i do not perfer them all i an say is be your self dont change to what others would like you to be do what u want its ur life not theirs alright so just go be yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2009): Unless your chest is severely small (i.e., worse than "so small that it makes me self-conscious and not feel great about my body"), don't get breast implants. The back pain isn't worth it. Talk to women with larger breasts about their back problems if you're still thinking about it.
And imagine what those implants will look like when you're 50.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2009): Please don't get surgery. but if you do, be realistic. C or D cups on a 100 lb woman do not look good either. You would get attention but not the kind you want. With all do respect search som sites for before and after photos, search for implants gone wrong etc do your homework. Back pain, scarring, Hard to fit clothes etc. A big decision. Now all that said, I am a boob man and I love them all. because we don't have any for starters, they are soft. the nipples are usually fun to stimulate kiss and suckle and so many other good uses. I love to have my hands in my wifes shirt. Probably too much. In a few years we'll be too old for sex so I tell her to enjoy my attraction to her while she can. Good luck and small ones are sexy too. Its often more in our minds to be sexy than our bodies.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (29 April 2009):
If you are asking for condonement to have breast enlargement so you can keep your boyfriend - all I can say is, 'big mistake'.He either loves you as you are or not.
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reader, Uncle Phil  + ♥, writes (29 April 2009):
 Just as long as they're natural, big or small, pert or not so pert and have a nipple on the end, they're nice tits. Sure, they were designed for feeding babies, but they're not known in some quarters as 'fun bags' for no good reason!
I could show you many a glamour model with 'B' cups - go and buy a copy of the Sunday Sport and have a look for yourself.
Whether you've got the equivalent of two fried eggs or a bra full of melons, from a man's point of view whatever you have will be beautiful in his eyes (and hands, face and mouth).
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reader, satindesire  +, writes (29 April 2009):
 Asking about large breasts is the same thing as asking about long eyelashes, or clear acne-free skin.
There are certain signs that humans give off, in terms of physical looks, that they are fertile, healthy, and capable of bearing many healthy children. Like in the animal kingdom, a male robin's bright red feathers are attractive to a female and signal that he is healthy and fertile, large breasts on a woman signal that she is healthy and fertile as well.
It's not shallow, it's survival of the species. Saying that "looks don't matter" is like saying being healthy doesn't matter. Healthy people who have great genetics often are very attractive, with highly symetrical faces and other signs of fertility.
There is nothing wrong with small breasts, many men like small breasts and I'm sorry that you haven't met ANY men that seem to enjoy them, but I can garuntee you that if your boyfriend loved big breasts SOOO much...he wouldn't be dating you.
If it bothers you that much, you can always go and get yourself a breast augmentation. The cohesive gel implant is a scientific breakthrough in plastic surgery and is far superior in looks and feel to saline implants, and far safer than traditional silicone since if punctured, cut or torn, they don't leak. Do a google search for "gummy bear" implants.
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (29 April 2009):
 Having big breasts myself i know they do attract unwanted attraction for some women, some women like to flaunt them and enjoy the attraction, i think most men like a variety whilst bigger breasts can be lovely to fondle, caress, and all sorts of other things small pert breast are equally attractive and some men prefer that to big boobs.
I think you have to be happy with what you have and if the men like to look which most do i can't see what harm they are doing one man i used to work with loved big boobs he used to tell us nothing felt nicer than smothering your face in them?
I never got that but it takes all types only downfall of bigger breasts is your back! they do put a lot of strain on it and i personally can suffer from sore backs here and there.
Men will always look when they see a pair of tits on show i always feel when they are on show you can't help but look yourself and i am a woman and they do absolutely nothing for me, but like i say if they are up there pointing at you it is hard not to look!
Gina
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