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Why do people say that being in love "hurts?"

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Question - (5 February 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi people say being in love hurts.

i dont understand this?????

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2007):

Its not love that hurts is the absence of love that hurts

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A female reader, CarrieMagdelene United States +, writes (6 February 2007):

CarrieMagdelene agony auntGood question! Love CAN hurt. May or may not be physical though. Love can emotionally hurt when your feelings aren't returned by the one you love, or maybe you're put in a terrible position where your heart feels like it's being ripped out because you've been hurt or you've hurt someone. Physical hurting is abuse, and there's not really an excuse for hurting someone like that.

Thus, love hurts.

Hope this helps! :) -Carrie

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2007):

i really hope you never have to find out what it means, i really do.

love makes people do the strangest of things, its the most intense addictive emotion there is and when you truely deeply love someone and you know they love you to, you'll be on cloud 9.

but sometimes love doesnt last, whether it be death, cheating or sometimes just growing apart. then it hurts, your suddenly alone, that warm glow isnt there and theres no one smiling back at you.

sorry to be so depressing but thats as good as i can get lol

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2007):

its like, when your in love if the person you love does somthing that will upset you it really!!! herts!! cause you care about them so much (if that really explains it lol)

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (5 February 2007):

cd206 agony auntLove is amazing. There is no feeling like it in the world. The problem is that love isn't always forever and when people think about it ending it hurts really badly. It's kind of hard to explain but trust me, one day you'll understand.

CD

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A female reader, cseame New Zealand +, writes (5 February 2007):

cseame agony auntsometimes people will say that meaning that they love that person so much that they can't let them go....

and when they do let them go their heart hurts, love hurts....

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