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Why do I think about giving my friend a blow job, since I am not gay?

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Question - (28 September 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 March 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

right, i am not gay but every time i see my friend who i have been friends for about 1 year and a half, i just like think about sexual stuff. like him giving me a blow job and stuff. why am i thinking this? plz help me

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009):

Do you watch porn? Guys on this site get the 'ideas' and wonder(?) why it's in their head. Some guys can't differentiate (spell ck.?) sexual love from brotherly love.

Society has o.k.'d lots of sexual fantasies now too. However, it's a road of disappointments to me.

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A male reader, moose061970 United States +, writes (17 March 2009):

Just because you MASTURBATE or have oral sex with a man does not mean you are gay. I have another man in bed with my wife and I. This man and I jackoff and did oral sex together and still enjoy sex with females even more. My wife thinks it adds to the sexual experience when we take turns doing things.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008):

First know that these feelings are perfectly normal and if you are questioning your sexually there is nothing wrong in that. You may be having these feelings because your going through your teenage years and your exploring new things. You don't have to act on these feelings no one has to ever know. Many people have fantasies about the same sex but that doesn't make them gay. Please try not to worry, if the feelings persist maybe try talking to someone confidentially about it.

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