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*oCal_Princess951
writes:My ex and I broke up almost 3 weeks ago, after being together for a little over 6 month, and it was a clean break-up, besides the fact I'm best friends with his gay brother (: Anyways, I've been seeing other guys just to see what else was out there, but a couple of the guys I've been going on dates with say, "I talk about my ex way to much". I really haven't noticed that I do talk about him a lot until the guys started bring it up. Because I talk about him, does this mean that I'm really not over him and I think I am, or possibly that I'm not interested in the guys that I'm on a date with which is why I feel the need to talk about my ex, because he truly is the whole package, and everything I could want in a guy? I have no intentions on getting back with him.
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reader, Vivee +, writes (25 October 2010):
Because you were in a comfort zone. I believe when we enter into a new chapter (or phase) in our lives we develop new habits to replace the existing ones. Like watching a movie on a Saturday night, or going out with friends, or even spending more time with family. When we enter into a relationship we are not only devoting our passion but our time in our daily routine to this individual and it creates a comfortable place to sit emotionally. If you are not able to stop thinking, talking, even dreaming about this person, get back into your old routine with the family and friends and late night movies and hit the gym, HARD... You will be done thinking about this person before long.
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