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writes: When I'm around my bf I don't really like him "that" much anymore. But when I'm not around him I think about him constantly and miss him a lot.. What's the deal? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2006): have you ever thought you might just miss the concept of being with a partner rather than your actual partner? maybe he is not right for you, but you cant imagine being without a boyfriend and just assume the feeling is cant imagine being without him. i had this problem, but eventually we broke up for other reasons, n i realise i am much happier now with my new boyf,
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2006): i wrote the question and um about what "lilred112" said , i think its mostly because "when you are apart you reminisc about how things use to be or how you would like them to be.. Then he comes around and acts totally different from what you expect and this kills those pleasent thoughts." yah. that sounds right , thanks
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (4 June 2006):
 You know what they say, absence makes the heart grow fonder. I think, when people are not around, we think about the good things about them and tell ourselves we are happy and like being with them. However, when they're around, it's another story. Their annyoing habits and stuff are right there in front of us so we can't get away from them . . . and we realise just how much they bug us!
If you don't really like him when you're around him, I think it's time to move on. Whether he's done something in particular that's upset you or it's just time to move on, you need to find someone who makes your heart skip a beat everytime you see them, not someone who makes your blood boil!
Be sure this is not just a phase and not for the wrong reasons. We all get annoyed with the people we love from time to time. Just be sure this is really how you feel and, if it is, get out of there now. Good luck
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reader, lilred112  +, writes (4 June 2006):
 There could be many of reasons why you are encountering this problem.. It could be something that he does that agravates you or makes you feel uncomfortable. Or it could be that the relationship has shifted and theres is a change in him that you see, and when you are apart you reminisc about how things use to be or how you would like them to be.. Then he comes around and acts totally different from what you expect and this kills those pleasent thoughts.. Or maybe you simply hang around eachother a little too much and need some personal space.. Fill us in with a litle more detail.. does one of these sounds like something that could be the reason??
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