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writes:Hey guys i have a question that i have thought on and i just can't seem to find the answer. There is this girl that i have known for about 8 years and for some reason i just can't stop thinking of her for the last couple of weeks. I have not seen her in like 2 years but we talk on and off whenever i get a chance to. We have dated a couple of times but i kept moving away then coming back. She has a boyfriend right now and i will be back in the same town again for good in about 1 year and a couple of months. I know i can get back with her. its just i dont know why i hesitate. Help me please!Cheers;)
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reader, sebaslookingforward  +, writes (4 August 2011):
Haha it took you a while to answer back.
Anyway I am personally against long distance relationships. If she is two hours away it is fine, but if you can only see her about twice per month or so I wouldn't recommend it.
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reader, rouge +, writes (1 July 2011):
rouge is verified as being by the original poster of the question Yeah i found someone else its long distance but she is everything. While the other girl turned out to no longer be who i thought she was.
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reader, sebaslookingforward +, writes (3 March 2011):
As starryeyes101 said, she has a boyfriend. Remain friends and keep contact. Meanwhile, learn more about her just to get closer to her, but respect the fact she has another guy.At the same time, do not focus too much in her. There are other girls in the town youre going to right? Give them a chance to because youre not commited to this girl.
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reader, StarryEyes101  +, writes (3 March 2011):
 If she has a bf you need to respect that. They are young so in a year she could be single and very much available. Talk to her as a friend. Keep in contact with her until you move back. If you stop contact I don't think she will wanna even talk to you. (Girl's are like that). Good luck with this. I hope it helps =)
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