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writes:I don't know what to do because i think that this could be a problem with me and guys that will affect my dating life horribly. Basically i move on from guys too quickly! I don't do anything in that sense with them, it's just fancying them and getting to know them. But here's an example...... I liked this guy a lot!! More than i've liked any guy, but then i met the sweetest guy who treats me so nicely and suddenly I didn't care so much for the other guy. But then things were going great with this sweet guy but then i ended up meeting a new guy who is honestly my match. But then i know i'll meet someone new and move on again!I just don't understand why i can get over guys sooo quickly! Especially from that guy that i was crazy about, it just annoys me because i know it is a problem and it worries me, i've tried to change my ways about this. But honestly i can't!?!?
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reader, Blod  +, writes (19 March 2011):
 I think it just shows that there was something missing with every guy you've been interested in. If you can move on so quickly without a second thought, you probably see something in that person that you didn't see in the last. It's probably something quite subconscious. I can understand why you're worried but you're still very young so what you want out of a guy is likely to be changing all the time. With every guy, you find something new that you're attracted to but you haven't found the whole package. Don't worry about it. Once you find someone really special, this won't happen. I hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): Hi, i was the one who asked this question.Its the physical attraction, but once i get talking to them its their personality that attracts me to them more. In all honesty, i know if a really attractive good looking guy was in the same room, i would want to know them and then once i do i would probably again loose interest in the other guy. I know that sounds very shallow and stupid, but this is why it aggravates me!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): No worries I feel this way sometimes too but I think it's a passing phase especially since you notice it's a problem. You should be an attractive girl hence the attention from the guys. But over time you'll assert your feelings for a guy before really liking him and going into a relationship with him because you'll mature in your thoughts. :)
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reader, NadgerBadger +, writes (19 March 2011):
It might be that you meet someone who has a really great personality, and so you end up thinking that you like them, even though it could be that they are just really friendly guys. Do you feel physically attracted to all of them? Or maybe it's a sign that you haven't found "The One" yet.
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