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writes:im 13 and i want a baby so bad.But im not frisky like some girls these days. Im an average teen. girl have friends, well known, captain of an cheerleading squad, go to school, want to go to collage, love giving advice, and love hanging out. My only problem is i want a baby so bad and i just dont want to loose any of that. I love to baby sit, and when im around kids i treat them as if their mines in the future. I know i would a great mommy someday but why is it happening to me so fast. I get very emotional when i see babys being mistreated, and unhappy. i know my mother realizes i have a prolem when it comes down to babys that i'll rather be around babys then to part or go out. But she was 17 when she had me,and thats pretty young if she was 17 and now im 13 she just 31 and thats old to say she have a child so older. Can some one please HELP ME!!!
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reader, kylapaige +, writes (5 August 2010):
i'm the same way!! i thought i was the only person. lol. well if you really wanna have this baby.. do it.. but going to collage is goin be hard lifes gonna be harder.. its not as easy as i looks.. you go though tons of pain having it. and at your young age.. your father might leave and tons of drama.. life will be harder... and tons of ppl at your school will hurt you and talk nasty things behide your back.. its really better to wait.. till ur older about 25 is a good age.. but 13 a little to young for a baby.. most 13-year-olds dont have the baby it dies or they do.. :( cuz ur body is to young.. but im not stopping you. ur life will change tho. find someone who will stay with you.
love kylapaige :)
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reader, perdyy  +, writes (14 April 2010):
i am 15 and im craving a baby so badly i love babys so much i love baby sitting and seeing babys laugh and giggle and be happy im always there for the younger ones i have had a virtual baby to cut me off it but it made me want a baby even more than i did can some please help me if im ready then should i consider it i need an answer asap ??
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reader, becky97 +, writes (2 April 2010):
 i am 13 and in the same position as you hunnyy i really want a baby and so does my boy friend if you have a boyfriend that you know will stick by you through thick and thin then go for it me and my boyfriend are goin to start trying for a baby in a few months
good luck :) xx
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reader, sounknown31 +, writes (20 March 2010):
 Thats perfectly normal, i use to go thruu that stage were i wanted a baby and use to always man i cant wait to have kids, but it is good to wait your only 13 and in no position to raise a kid, your still a kid yourself, but your just probably one of those girls who love kids, you a friendly person maybey as you get older you should be a pediatrition or a teacher :)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 March 2010):
I'm sure there are a lot of women who have felt the same at your age. It's a natural thing. There is nothing wrong with feeling this way, so long as at this time you don't act on it. I'm sure you will be a great mum one day. But you need to be in a good position in life first. You need to make sure you have qualifications that you can get a job, you need to have a job to earn money and buy a house and such. Also, the average child In Britain is around £10,000 a year. So that's about $18,000 a year in the US. And also remember then even when you've been babysitting, you have never really seen children at their worst. It's one thing looking after someone else's kids. It's totally another to be looking after your own. Just take your time and make sure your own life is as good as it can be before you have kids.
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