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Why did this shy girl get so scared?

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Question - (14 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I was over her house Thursday to hang out with her brother. Her brother and I were in the family room watching a DVD and she was in their computer room surfing the net. Their dad had just gotten home and he was walking by the computer room. She stopped her dad dead in his tracks by saying that she wanted to show him something that really scared her. Then I heard her mention my name and her dad sounded shocked when he repeated it back to her. Then I could hear her explain to him what she found and I heard him mention The Last Airbender. The first thing that went through my mind was that she found one of the questions I had posted on here:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aoqz5ic2.Zaaqv.157DZYVrty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100604231124AAk5161

Her dad remarked that I did a thorough job. Her mom go into it as well and they came to an agreement that they were going to ask me about it. I also heard my parents names being mentioned. Luckily, none of this was brought up to either my parents or I.

After dinner, she went back on the computer and apparently looked at duplicate questions that I had posted. She got her dad to look at them again and he basically just stated the obvious. When I walked by the computer room, she asked her dad if I had peeped in.

Some of the signs of liking me that she shows include: looking at me when I'm not looking at her (sometimes while giggling), mimicking me, asking people she knows questions about me, showing concern for me if she thinks I’m in trouble, her friends act differently around me, sometimes she blushes around me, etc.

Anyway, what happened? Does this somehow mean she likes me ? Why was she so scared about this in the first place? After all, there was this one time I tried professing my feelings, so it shouldn't be that much of a surprise. Also, how did she find the questions? I tried Googling The Last Airbender and my name respectfully and couldn't find it. She doesn't know any personal information (such as my email and ip address) about me that would help her find any of my questions.

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (14 June 2010):

Moo's Mum agony auntI'm very confused about why the girl and her dad would find your question about the Last Airbender so worrying or offensive. Maybe you've read the situation wrongly. Perhaps you could ask her about it.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2010):

She might have been scared because she perceived that as creepy. How old are you really? Because you seem too old for this sort of thing to be happening (the whole situation with her telling her parents as well).

From those few signs it does seem like she likes you, but I think you've probably picked up on those and played them up quite a bit in your mind, so they're a bigger deal than they actually are. Why were you at her house? Why not ask her to hang out, just you two, sometime. See how she responds to it. If she's not interested just let it go and don't overanalyze. If she says yes, then great!

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