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writes:Well right now I feel very confused. I had this teacher last year and we, well we had a normal student-teacher relationship. I saw her as only a teacher. Well this year everything completely changed even though she isn't my teacher anymore I see her everywhere and often. When she looks at me I kind of go crazy and I can't talk to her without melting!Well a few weeks ago we had a sort of moment. I was at a stairwell with some friends and then she came by. Well she said hi then I said hi and smiled. Well she was going down the second part of the stairs and I went to the rail to watch her go down. I couldn't help but bite and lick my lips at how amazingly beautiful she looked, just as I was liking my lips she looks straight at me and give me the sexiest smile I've ever seen then chuckles and keeps walking.This is just one of many moments. Like she always says hi to me when she barely even looks at other students. And she's always staring at me even my friends ask why she looks at me so much.And I was really confused one morning when she was coming into her classroom, I was close to her door talking to my friend. She accidentally dropped the stuff she had in her hands. I ran to help her and I saw her trembling and she could barely look at me. I helped her then opened the door an went inside. I could barely breathe but I managed to say you're welcome when she could barely look at me and say thank you.Could anyone tell me what this could mean!! :(
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (18 November 2010):
 I think dropping her things would suggest she was upset about something hence it caused her to drop her stuff and be trembling, she wouldnt have wanted to look at you because she would not have wanted her student to see their teacher upset as it would compromise her position of authority over you.
As for looking at you and saying hi - she probably just thinks you are a nice kid and a good student.
Look, regardless of what any of this means (which I'm pretty sure means nothing), she is your teacher therefore under no circumstances can you ever have a relationship. So it doesnt matter! There is no point in over thinking this, she is your teacher therefore would be put in prison if she had a relationship with you, and would be on the sex offenders register for the rest of her life, she would lose her job, her friends, her family....she would lose EVERYTHING. Teachers know they cannot have relationships with students, they know what they would lose if they did therefore I am certain she will not have feelings for you. Teachers deliberately do all they can to make sure they dont have feelings for students as it will get them into more trouble than it is worth.
So please, stop trying to find signs that she might like you, I am certain that she will only like you as a student and think you are a nice girl, but nothing more. Probably thinks your a bit funny for staring so much and pulling odd faces at her (hence the chuckles) - but definitely NO romantic feelings towards you.
All kids have crushes on teachers at some point, that is normal and perfectly fine. But what is NOT ok is to try and take it further by trying to read into her actions, this just gets your hopes up every time you see something you think might mean she likes you too.
So remember that you cant have a relationship with her so stop this behaviour right now, and just have a crush on her and admire her from afar.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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