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writes:Yesterday me and my fiance went to a gathering with her family members. While there I was introduced to one of her cousins who looked at my fiance like he had not seen her in a while. He shook my hand and looked back at her and asked me if I minded him grabbing her butt. I of course laughed it off while stating hell no and that that would not be cool at all.I thought that was very disrespectful and as the day proceeded he kept coming up to us or really her to talk fixing his belt, adjusting his pants right in my fiance's face.I felt all of this was disrespectful especially asking if I minded him grabing her butt. It was in my opinoin wrong for him to be adjusting his pant buttoning his pants, and stuff like that in front of my fiance.What do nyou think and was I wrong for feeling disrespected.
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reader, Thisiscrazy  +, writes (22 April 2012):
 That man was extremely insecure around you and to cover that he was a complete arrogant person who is best being ignored.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2012): you hve a right to feel whatever you feel, but he acted like an ill mannered person, and may be for him its a norm, nothing was personal to you.
of course there is no excuse for his behavour, but it sounds like like he is just one stupid lad, that should know better.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (22 April 2012):
Maybe he was drunk, on drugs, or into incest?! I have a lot of male cousins (I have a large family) and NONE of them would ever want to touch my butt or do any of those things. That's gross! Did you talk to your fiance about it at all? Is he always like that?
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