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female
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26-29,
*obolamp
writes:Here's the deal there's this guy that likes me and he knows I like him back and we haven't actually agreed to be a couple even though everyone knows we like each other.Basically we're just friends, but I don't know what he thinks of me at this point and he makes it pretty obvious that he likes me a lot. Lately My feelings for him started fading and I start noticing different faults in him. And I'm actually thinking of breaking up with him. But how do I break up with him if we're not even together.I really wanted this relationship to work out and I don't know why all of a sudden I start thinking like this. About half a year ago a new guy came in our class and almost every girl likes him including my friend. She asked him and it didn't work out. I was really hoping it would though because I can't stop thinking about him for some reason. I think it's such a cliché to like the most popular guy in school. He said it "wasn't his interests" when he turned her down. But I don't know what he meant by that. I feel so horrible for wanting to leave him, he seems to have gotten really attached to me and I'd feel horrible if I just randomly came up to him and ended whatever we had just like that. I don't know what to do, help! Reply to this Question
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reader, PurityChild  +, writes (22 November 2010):
 Hello Hobolamp, I think you need to reavauate your particular reasons for wanting to break it off in the first place. Are you just finding reasons to break it off because you notice a new guy that caught your eye or are you really not interested anymore...Basically I feel like if you liked this guy from them begining why would you up and stop, so honey reevauate your reasons and then try and make a decision because this may not be what you want to do.
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