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Why did he run away from me? Am I that scary?

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Question - (14 October 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 October 2010)
A female age , anonymous writes:

I met a man at my previous job. There was a strong attraction between us. Neither of us tried to move it on. I left over three months ago. We have had limited e-mail contact. He's trying to remain professional as I am on the payroll until the end of this month (he was my boss!).

This evening I saw him running for the bus I was on(I was not certain whether it was him as he had gym clothes on). He normally wears a suit for work. He got onto the bus behind. We both got off at the station but I did not want to initiate conversation so I just walked on as if I was unaware he was behind me. I was wondering whether my straight hair style confused him but the way he ran was so obvious.

At the station ticket area he stormed pass me and ran up the stairs at speed. It was a tube train so its not like there would not be one for a couple of hours. He ran pass me on the stairs. It was not crowded. He must had seem me! On the platform he ran to the furthest away train carriage he could get.

I feel really confused. One minute his body language is all over me and now its as if he's scare of me.

I think he was shocked to see me as he was looking scruffy having just worked out in the gym! I tend to be well groomed. In the pass when we have had meetings his PA often tells me he wont be long as he's in the toilet. I feel he tends to spend a lot of time preening before our meetings.

I actually felt quite offended as he could have said something and then move off. Not run pass me like that. I plan to tell him how he made me feel.

Maybe you could let me know how this looks from your point of view.

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A female reader, Nonamus United States +, writes (15 October 2010):

I think he probably didn't realize it was you

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