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Why did he dump me and now, why suddenly, does he want me back?

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Question - (1 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 1 August 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, *ememberMe4Me writes:

i'm 17 and about 3 months into my relationship my boyfriend dumped me for no reason... I went to school the next day and acted perfectly normal, if not better, and almost everyone freaked out knowing what had already happened. Well we promised we'd still be friends and we were i was just a little mean about everything though. And i forced myself to stop liking him and it almost worked, my best friend wrote him a note that day saying that i was getting over him REALLY fast and that if he still loved me he needed to do something about it. What i didnt know is that another one of my friends had talked to him and he DID still like me (from what they say) and she had sent me an email saying it. I talked to him later that night and he told me that he had rethought everything and said he had no reason for breaking up with me, he told me that he'd been crying about it for a while and that he just wanted to say he still loved me even if i wouldnt take him back... well my question is what was he thinking about when he dumped me? Why did he want to do it and why suddenly take me back like that?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2007):

Hi im currently in your ex bf position, I dumped my gf after a year and half relationship, me and her where seeing each other every day 24/7, i was annying her and she was annying me and we practically had arguments everyday. Now tht we have had time away from each other i want her back and love her. All it is, is sometimes ppl need time away from their love ones. Remember: Time away makes the heart grow fonder. DjManny x

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A female reader, Sweet-thing United Kingdom +, writes (1 August 2007):

Sweet-thing agony auntAsk him. There in will lie your answer. Then you can decide if you want to bother with him anymore.

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A female reader, ohdear16 United States +, writes (1 August 2007):

ohdear16 agony auntWell, this is a tough one. At highschool men think they shouldn't be in a relationship, that they should be going out with tons of girls before they graduate. And from what I am hearing that is what he was thinking, but as your friends talked to him it actually made him think that just maybe you could be the one, and he really does love you. Take him back if you feel the same way, but if he does it again don't go back, because he isn't ready for a relationship.

---Stephanie---

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