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female
age
30-35,
*aliMoore
writes:My boyfriend and i have been having sex for about a month now, we were both virgins when we met; so we are both still quite inexperienced.In the beginning of our new sex life my boyfriend was able to make me orgasm during intercourse a few times. Its now been almost 3 weeks since he has,(We have sex frequently at least 5 times a week)and now i only seem to be able to orgasm through oral sex. It seems i take much longer than he does. My boyfriend is not well endowed and therefore abit on the short side, but hes made me cum before so i cant figure out why it doesn't seem to be working anymore.We've tried different positions and so on, but it just doesnt seem to be working. I have a high sex drive and find my boyfriend extremely attractive so im very confused?! any advice would be much appreciated! thanks in advance x x x
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (22 November 2010):
Firstly, the fact you take longer to orgasm than your boyfriend is nothing to worry about.
You are still very new to your sex life and still learning what makes you tick.
Think about the times when he did make you cum. Was it in a particular position or a particular angle? Sometimes the angle can be the key.
For example, if you are in missionary and you place a pillow under your lower back, it can change the angle and give deeper penetration.
Just a tiny adjustment like that can make a difference, so bear things like that in mind.
Of course trying different positions can help and different things like role play and perhaps filming, although the latter is probably much further down the line.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2010): try more foreplay but you dont always have to have an orgasm every time you make love, Dont put so much pressure on yourself.
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