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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been going out with my honey for about a year now and everything is great except for sexually. He's really easy to pleasure, I can always get him off, but I've never had an orgasm from him. I'm blushing as I write this - I feel so ashamed! I'm a virgin... does that have something to do with it? The fact that we're trying new things together for the first time? Is it him? I don't know... it's not that I'm not comfortable with him, I love him. We're good together. My body just refuses to cooperate? And when he fingers me I either feel nothing special or he ends up hurting me and I just say forget it... it's so frustrating.
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reader, lucygirl +, writes (18 March 2007):
this is actually a pretty common problem. since you're a virgin, and sex is not an option, there are other things you guys can do to try to make your orgasm. you say he fingers you, but maybe you need clitoral stimulation. ask him to rub your clit. if this doesn't work then try oral. oral on a girl is usually a big success and if not then at least you tried.
also maybe if you start trying things out yourself, like with your hands when your masturbating, and you know what feels good, then you can tell him and im sure he wouldnt mind doing it
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