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*razdnconfuzd2013
writes:Modnote:how old is this son of your friend?Why do i (21) keep thinking about my friend's son (19), whom i only met twice?!? Not more than 2 words. Ughhh...so gorgeous! Im in a relationship for 2 years but turns out he (37) married twice and had kids. But he is a great guy. I've never been married, nor kids. So why do I have this obsession? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 February 2013):
 I am married now. I’m older than my husband by 13 + years and I have two kids who are in their 20s… I tell you this because your guy at 37 with two (ex) wives may or may not be right for you…. (as long as he’s not currently married) so don’t overthink that part of it… I addressed it since you mentioned it that means it plays on your mind. His age, his kids and his two prior marriages do not have much bearing on you right now… or why you find 19 yr old boy attractive…
I’m 53 and have a hot crush on a guy who’s about my older son’s age right now… Happily married and yet I can look at pretty girls or boys and go “oh pretty” and know that’s all it is… eye candy… if all you do is think about it… then it’s not a big deal… if it makes you question your current relationship, well then you have to consider why your not happy with your current situation…
Sometimes a pretty face is just a pretty face, sometimes it’s the trigger to get us to leave something we know is not a great fit but it’s good enough…
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reader, crazdnconfuzd2013 +, writes (20 February 2013):
crazdnconfuzd2013 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you . My boyfriend is 37 and im 21.. my friend is 53 n her son is 19.. is it healthy to think about another guy whilst in relationship?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2013): Age shouldnt matter, but it really does. You are young and get to experience so many new ecciting things. Your boyfriend has already been there and done that, twice. But as far as the friends son, its just a crush. Good luck!
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