Why am I still holding on when he doesn't want me?

A female age 41-50, *newMe writes:

April 2009 i moved out of my ex's house and moved in with my mom. it was a very confusing breakup i didnt really understand why we were breaking up but i knew i had to leave. anyway, i still loved him very deeply and he started treating me badly like I didn't exist until he felt I was moving on then he would come back explaining how he wanted to get married but we need to work things out blah blah. this went on all summer but he wasn't serious, i knew he wasn't but i loved him. since september I have finally been getting the hint and drifting off on my own to find a new life but he keeps hangin around. we literally don't spend anytime together. my car is down and now he wants to lend me his car instead of anyone else doing so, he gives me money once per week. he sends me money through his mom and has offered $2500 to help on a new car. but he doesn't want me..i know that..I keep telling him that he doesn't have to give me money but he insists. we are not even having sex. i'm confused. I guess my question is.. why am i still holding on? or why is he, when he doesn't want me?

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