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Why am I putting up with this from her?

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Question - (8 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *ussellBrand writes:

I am going through this meeting up and being overly nice to my ex, she dumped me about 5 months ago now, we see each other about 2-3 times a week, i take her shopping whenever and wherever she wants to go, we are still sleeping with each other. She knows i still love her and at times she says loves me too but she also states we cant get back together, shes the type of girl who worries what people would think, its a weird situation i am in. She chooses when she replys to my texts, I drop anything and everything im doing at the time to answer her calls or text back, shes constantly on my mind, who knows if she thinks about me or not? I am getting completely used and i realise I have to be strong and move on. Within the past few months i have had girls wanting me to take them out but ive not taken it any further as i am scared it might harm my chances of getting my ex back if i do. Strange how a girl 6 years my junior at the age of 20 can have made such an impact in my life. Its got to the point where i discuss this with close work colleagues and they are just laughing asking why the hell am i putting up with this from her!?! I think about her daily and check my phone constantly. Whats the best advice ii can have with this situation please?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2010):

You have to just forget about her. She is clearly not all that interested in you. Remember...disappointment lasts for two or three days, but regret last forever...If you keep thinking about this women, you'll regret it. And you'll go mad.

It sounds like you have some kind of obsession with her because she's young and cute...but it's time to move on.

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A female reader, rachel2 United States +, writes (8 October 2010):

my best advice?

STOP NOW

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