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writes: While dating and having much difficulty landing a real relationship, I've noticed that many women avoid getting into a serious relationship with a guy who has not been in a long term relationship in the past. Why is that? I don't want to lie because I am very honest, but I've found that women take me a lot more seriously if I say I've been in a 1 or 2 year long relationship as opposed to when I tell the truth (my longest "relationship" had only been 1 month).Do women think "there must be something wrong with him? I don't think anything is wrong with me, I just haven't met someone who is willing to commit to me, yet. (BTW, I am not shallow, I can count on one hand how many I've rejected, but if I counted how many times I've been rejected I'd run out of fingers and toes).What is it about "experience" that makes a man more appealing? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2012): Simple, they are judging you for your past.
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reader, DazedConfused  +, writes (8 September 2012):
In my opinion, its not so much "experience". When I was single and a guy told me he hadnt been in a long term relationship. It raised the question why?... It maybe gives off the impression you cant hold a long term relationship.
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