A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Where to start.My husband and I are seperated. He has moved interstate and there is very little chance of our marriage being fixed. It wase a very very painful seperation with both of us taking huge hits. I met a great guy who was supportive and loving to a fault. We started dating and the sex was brilliant... However he was slightly boring and in constant need of reassurance. Now I have just come out of a marriage and was not looking for anything serious and I didn't need to be constanly hand holding anybody.Enter the bad boyPOLAR oppsite of the nice guy, This guy is an arrogant young man. I know he lies to try and impress me but I just let it slide (agian nothing serious) I am a professional Alpha female so it takes a fair bit to rattle my cage. However this boy can do just that. There is a dangerous side to him that for some reason I find attractive. He is not the hand holding crying type. He is very strong willed and beyond stubborn. I have not told my family or friends about him and I doubt I will. Sex wsith him is rough and often I end up covered in bruises. I am so ashamed of myself every time I am with him... But I can't seem to stop. When he kisses me my stomach flips.My question is, Why am I attracted to this type of person and is it just a way of me punishing myself for my failed marriage?
View related questions:
moved in Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2012):
Who you are attracted to is whatever kind of person would have helped your ancestors have the healthiest kids.
Who makes you happy in a relationship? That is completely unrelated.
|
