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*okiogirl
writes:I am very confused and feeling like a fool. Long story short, we work together in different cities. He teases me all the time, contact me every day and call me sweet names. I really like him and i kind of think he likes me too.Problem is i am not sure and as we work together i do not look stupid. On the other hand i has been really hurt in the past by someone who seemed to be head over heels and one day .. just gone ! The new guy seems to be confident saying "you cannot go through your day without talking to me", just joking but still ...I am stressed all the time thinking he can change his mind and step back ... He started to say he wanted to see me in the weeks coming and when we will go and blah blah but today he asked when I am going to visit him. I told him he was supposed to come and he said he cannot as there is not a professional reason to come. I reacted not that well saying if he wants to see me he will make up something .. i regret now ...What should i do ? I do not even know if he likes me and i feel super stressed because of this .. What do you think ?? Thank you for your advise !
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reader, tokiogirl +, writes (11 May 2010):
tokiogirl is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe is doing it, again and again .. He contacts me all the time and he tells me things like: i like to picture you all happy, u are cute and blah blah He said if you go out with me wearing this dress i spend next week in your town, i said yeeeeesssss ! and i guess this is not going to happen.
I mean, he should imagine i am interested as we talk all day long, i care about his stuff and i told him i want to see him. Exactly the same he does. But i feel very insecure about if hi is just enlighten his working hours or he really likes me.
Can he just shut up and stop confusing me ??? I start to think he likes me but he has a gf or something like that ....
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