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writes:I've been split up with me ex for a year and a half without seeing or contacting each other, I have been with my new boyfriend for a year and my ex knows about him. However recently my ex followed me on instagram and added me on snap chat out of the blue. I guess what I want to know is why he did this?? I don't understand what he is trying to accomplish or why he would want to see what I'm doing after so long of being apart?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2014): Don't react to it, on instagram I'd upload a really lovely photo of you and your bf with a comment about how happy you are and hashtag love and soulmates just to be obvious that you are happy without him!! That'll probably get rid of him!Snapchat, I wouldn't share snapchats with an ex and maybe say to your bf that he's added you and discuss together whether you should just get rid of him or leave him there.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan +, writes (12 January 2014):
WiseOwlE is quite correct: he’s trying to get a reaction. Things may not be going well for him at the moment so he’s revisiting the past and getting nostalgic, or he could just be messing with your head. We can’t really tell, you might be able to figure it out as you know him. Either way though, if you’ve moved on with your life just ignore him.
I wish you all the very best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2014): You answered your own question. To make you wonder.
His point is to get a reaction. Don't respond.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2014): He could added you because he found you or because youve sparked his interest again somehow.Thats the only likely scenario
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