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Who do I choose...the guy I like who doesn't talk to me or the other guy, I don't like but really likes me?

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Question - (25 April 2006) 5 Answers - (Newest, 27 October 2007)
A female , anonymous writes:

This is kind of complicated, but here goes!: I have really liked this guy for ages. He is really funny and sweet, but everyone used to think he's a nerd. I'm not very popular, but I thought I might have a chance with him. Recently he's become very popular and everyone likes him, and he doesn't talk to me any more. I still like him, though! Just about now I've realised that quite a popular, nice, funny boy might like me. Only problem, I don't like him in that way! Who should I go for??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007):

The first one.

Why go for the second, you can't change him, the more you try the more he will resist.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007):

the guy you like yu should choose

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A female reader, twilightdiamond Australia +, writes (26 April 2006):

twilightdiamond agony auntWell, personally I'd go for the one who likes you but you dont like, that way you'd make tha other one jealous, but if he doesnt get jealous coz he doesnt like you then at least you'll have a nice, funny, popular guy as a boyfriend right?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2006):

You know, I'll probably get a bad rating for this, but jeebus! The question is... [drum roll] WHY do you NEED to be in a relationship in the first place?

Second question - you like the first guy, but he won't talk to you. Okay, so the problem is that he is shy. SO, how the hell does it motivate you to oh I don't know, choose someone else whom you have no feelings for?

[laughs] I mean, what is going on with you? What is going on with everyone?!? 90% of the questions here on DC.org really baffles me.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2006):

Hey no pressure in going steady now. See if you can hook up with both of them. Casual dating is OK. Just don't give in to peer pressure for sex because once u giv it up they'll dump u like a hot potato. Good luck.

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