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Which of these 2 older men should I choose?

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Question - (10 August 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 August 2010)
A female Ireland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I,m 18 and i like 2 older guys one 24 other 28. One i,ve not seen in 2 years and one i see near everyweek. I know for definate guy number 2 likes me. ya see Guy number one we,ll call James(28) is a sweet and caring guy who is a strong believer in god. And Guy number 2 Dave(24) is a comedian and entertainer who is funny yet controlling and demanding. I havent seen James in two years and i used to really fancy him and i still do and i tink he felt the same...but i never had the chance to admit it to him as he moved away. I,ve been carryin a torch for him since. Now on friday he,ll be back and because its been ages since we seen eachother it would be strange to admit it to him so my friend is giving him my number. Dave is a guy i met at the bus stop we started texting and now he seems demanding. I do have an attraction to both men but i want advice on what to do who do i chose what do i do I think i was and still kinda am inlove wit james but i,m not a big believer in god like i do believe there is a god but he is a really strong believer. And dave seems to think he can pull any woman he wants and it kinda puts me off but theres something that attracts me to him and I dnt no wat. What should I do who should i chose Please help me :(

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2010):

Definately not Dave! If he thinks he can pull any woman he wants prove to him that he can't by saying no to him. You are the kind of woman who is attracted to the 'bad guy' haha same here BUT don't fall for it! James seems like a nice bloke though. If he wants to have a relationship with you, you need to make sure he knows how you feel about religion but don't let him force you in to it with his kindness. Stay friends with James and cut off all cords with Dave or it will end in disaster.

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