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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:i'm 19 years old and only had one boyfriend. sounds stupid but i only want a b.f that i can see a long term future with not no fun or short term etc.two guys liek meGuy A knowin him nearly for a month i;ve fancied him from word go hes 23 and had problems in his life.we both can relate and makes us stronger. hes goin to start college now uni next year for same course as me. his mum died when he was 16 and that has lead to problems but he is really sweet and decent. but it felt he was taking things to slow not makin enough moves. so one day after we opened up abow our lives i said to him im goin to try it with the other guy. he said ok go 4 it..bt i asked why dow u feel the way i feel 4 u. we had heart to heart.he was heart broken when i said that . he likes me alot and is sorry so i said ill come back to him.he has changed tlks more on msn.but he does ignore or goes quiet so we had a lil fight and he goes il stop goin n msn and jst ring u instead. he does try. jst hes got problems on he rang me the toher night when he was drunk and went in2 details about things his feelings. he lives in leicester like 40 mins away from me im in wolvesGuy b 19- uni - music and a dj.lives in london but hes fancied me asap and asked me out after 3days he does make me smile. he rings me every night no matter where he is. but deep down i think he jst after sex like he wants us to chill in his car and giv me love bites. where as guy a wants us to go for a bite to eat or chill like talk etc. but atleast he rings i guess but when ever we tlk he always makes a joke abow sex.he rings me for 20 mins then later on if i dow pick up hes on the phone 2 some one else for a hour. he alreayd said i love u etc. its jst he gives me attention i think.
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reader, theboythatcriedhotgirlfriend +, writes (27 August 2009):
 Subconciously, i think you've already picked dude A because, for staters, his paragraph is colossal compared to B. Moover, you seem to have a deeper connection with B on a emotion level which is vital in long distance relationship. Judging by you're description of dude A, you already think he's only in it for the sex. Combine this with his sex jokes and he becomes too immature to be candidate for your needs. With all this considered, B becomes the recommed selection
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