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*mkhan433
writes:I met two guys and I didn't end up with either of them. I often think and compare and contrast and I wonder...which situation do you think is worse?Obviously no one would want either to happen but...A guy having a first love that haunts you every step of the way and makes having a relationship with him difficult though he treats you PERFECTLY!OR A party boy with an image who fell super hard but choose that party life out of fear of a relationship and for his image. Now when you look at him you just see sex and dirtiness associated with him though you and everybody else know he loved and respected you very much...though whatever he could do wrong...he did. He really could piss you off with his image issues...but when he cared for you it was so sincere that it literally took your breath away. Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (29 October 2011):
 I would not touch either with a ten feet pole, but, threatened at gun point , I'd pick the first.
I am very wary of people having " image problems ", unless they are Mick Jagger- I'd find utterly ridicolous a guy who in his heart does not want the party life but keeps living it to impress his pals. Plus, unluckily when all it's said and done, it's what you DO that counts, not what you feel, so if he loved you and respected you, yet he did all wrong concerning you... then maybe he did not love and respect you enough.
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