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Where is this relationship with a married man headed?

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Question - (14 November 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 15 November 2012)
A female Switzerland age 41-50, *is Angel writes:

I am in love with marriedman.I been knowing him for 8years the 1st 3 years and later on I breakit for 4 years and now more than a year

I am falling in love allover again.I know it's wrong but I realize he loves me,he always say I trow him outof my life for 4years.now in that 4 years a lot happen he got kid not with wife.I am confused I wanna blive him everthing he say and I know this time around he meinit.how long I have to wait I do know.I am just scared just to get heard.I am even willing to live my babys father for him.I got 2 kids but I am not married I am in relationship 14years with the father of my kids.but know I feel like new born with this married man.if we togethr we like teens.I never think even for oneday it will come far. He want me to end my relationship.but he say he have to slowly bring up this to his daughter (with wife)he can't move yet.I rally dono what to do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012):

He is strining you along. Dont put your life on hold. Tell him when he is single, he can contact you. Until then let it go, you are going to make yourself miserable. Read the stories of all the woman that had affairs, its the same story line and history has shown very few actually leave their wives.

You are setting yourself up for heartache if you dont end things now, no matter all the promises he make action speak louder than words.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012):

STAY AWAY FROM HIM! He wants you to end your relationship but he has to SLOWLY break the news to his wife? Really?! No offense but you need to wake up and face the facts. He is is trying to keep you single so you can be at his beck and call for whatever. You are at an age that you should know better and from the history you have, you already know what that is. If I read right you said he has another child out there not by his wife? He is a cheater who doesn't use protection. Why would you put you're life on the line for somebody like that? You need to stay by yourself for a while and learn how to love yourself. A woman that loves herself and demands respect don't tolerate this type of man. Good luck to you.

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