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*lchristie
writes:Biological Fatherless Child. Worse than fatherless.I looked up and thought another man was my father. He was not a great man, but he 'was' my father. 12 years old I found out otherwise. I am brunette, I have 3 brothers now, 2 blonde...one brunette...ironically enough... I thought I shared a father with the brunette one. Not so much. Turns out I was an affair with a Mexican bull fighter. Wow. No wonder I admire the Spanish language so. I am over the angry stage and want to know my bloodline.Where do I go from here I wonder. Anyone else feeling this betrayal of lies?
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reader, Blonde68  +, writes (17 March 2012):
As already suggested search online, there are lots of sites and some are free.
However, what I am more interested/concerned about for you is, ARE you ready in your mind for a bad outcome from this - because it could be!? I am sorry to sound neglective, but I want you to prepare yourself for the worst as well as the good just incase he isn't interested should you find him.
Why do I say this? Because I was rejected by my biological father when I found him 13 years ago when I was 30 and I havent heard from him since that day I set eyes on him. Different circumstances however, because I always knew his name and had a photo of him.
I hope it turns out a happy ending for you but just prepare yourself that is all!
Good luck x
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