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writes:hello i am new on the site, well i need answers on how to get my husbands eyes back on me... i get no attention anymore i always feel that i am so needy and i hate feeling like that. we have talked a million times about the almost non existant sex and other topics. i just dont have anymore answers and i am truly getting exhausted by expecting things from him and getting nothing. when he is asleep i hold him and it feels great and sad at the same time. i dont know what to do or how to feel anymore, been married 7 years and together 10. the love is very much there with both of us. Reply to this Question
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 January 2011):
 Sexual desiores go away after about 3 years. Usually it's the women that meltsdown but sounds like he went down first. You could try resding the Kams Sutra together.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (6 January 2011):
 I'm sure that if you dressed sexy for him one night that would get his attention, there can be lots of ways to solve this age old problem, he just needs a bit of spice by the sounds of it. You could say, that you are going to treat him one night because he deserves it, and tell him what you are going to do to him before you begin, you might suprise yourself and enjoy that aspect of it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2011): Can you share his thoughts with us? What has he told you when you talked about it?
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