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writes:Hey, I am 15, male, and i am straight, but i recently have been using my moms vibrator for anal pleasure. i like girls, but i also enjoy anal pleasure. is there any way i can get a butt plug, anal beads, or vibrator without telling my parents?
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (28 November 2009):
 sorry babes, but I don't give sexual advice to teenagers... best is to explore your body and find out what feels nice and turns you on. And be safe, don't hurt yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhow should i experiment without toys? if you could give me some good suggestions, that would be appreciated
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reader, Miamine +, writes (23 November 2009):
Thanks for your response babes, I had to ask, and it seems that you are very clear in your sexuality. I would suggest you take a trip to a sex shop, if they have things like that near you. Pay by cash, and hide it in your room where no one can find it. Your not old enough for a credit card, so it would be difficult to pay for such a thing online. Now buying from a sex shop, would mean you need to look old enough. If you have older cousins, brothers or someone nearer to your age, you could speak with them. But as I said, I would prefer if you explore without sex toys. Much more easier, less questions to answer, and nothing to hide away.. Take care and enjoy yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): If you found a way to buy an american express gift card you could use it to buy what you wanted online without them knowing about it. The only trouble there might be handling the delivery when you receive it.
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reader, niiiki +, writes (23 November 2009):
 your using your moms vibrator!? thats nasty, your sharing you A** germs w/ your mothers vagina, thats dirty. i have no advise on where to get toys but, maybe you should use something more hygenic/clean.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey, hey, calm down everybody. let me get this across to all of you who question my sexuality. it is a simple science that the prostate gland holds enormous possibilities for good orgasms. i still like women, i don like men, however most of my masturbating is jerkin off in my room huddled over my computer with some good pron flicks. now that that is settled, i am experimenting on how to find a great orgasm. well, hope that helps clear shit up.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (23 November 2009):
lol.. satindesire, once you get to know me, you'll see that I'm not conservative.. I just say it like I see... and for me at the moment, this guys sexuality is not straight, it's still exploring and that is wonderfull to me.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (23 November 2009):
Satindesire, you are right of course.. there is no ALL when it comes to sex.. But you must admit, it is difficult for a lot of women to handle, because their thoughts instantly turn to thinking their man would prefer a male.
I think I've been gentle, nothing is set in stone, and all things must be considered, and no judgements have been made... the answer to the question is.. forget about sex toys, use your body to give you pleasure, and ask yourself if anal play is the best and if you might prefer this to vaginal intercourse.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): Well, I wasn't trying to be unhelpful. I'm glad to hear that you sanitise the vibrator after use. But the fact remains that using her vibrator without her permission isn't really fair.
She may not be all that super-conservative if she owns a vibrator, but you know her better than we do.
I wouldn't recommend asking 'mom, is it OK if I borrow your vibrator' so it's definitely a good idea to get a toy of your own. If you don't look old enough to get served in a sex shop, then as Satin points out, the online option is your best bet.
Good luck!
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reader, Miamine +, writes (23 November 2009):
oh dear.. your post brings up a lot of issues..
You say your straight, but the amount of happiness you find in anal play makes me wonder. Hetrosexual guys at your age who are sexual focus on their penis.. No judgement, but your enjoyment of anal play rings loud bells to me.. your still young, who knows what will happen.. but straight women find men who like anal play uncomfortable...
To answer your questions.. at your age, please keep things simple.. fingers are enough, and will give sensation and also teach you about your body.. I don't recommend objects untill you are older, because it makes sexuality too mechanical for my liking... you are honest about what you need, and I don't want to worry you, but eventualy you wil need to see how this anal play will work into a sexual relationship with a hetrosexual girl.. Keep it simple babes, you have all the rest of your life to play..
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reader, Miamine +, writes (23 November 2009):
13 to 15 and the USA.. baby, I'm giving you relevant sex advice to suit your situation.. At your age, you have ton's of hormone's, you are hungry for sex, love and babies, and that is beautifull.. but, we want you to be safe, be happy, so I will give you an adults advice.
Sex toys are not necessary.. I'm an old woman and I hate them... most of a woman's feeling is in her clitorous, her funny button, your fingers will do... for sex toys.. don't need to spend money.. there are plenty of things arround the house that will satisfy you... cucumbers, carrots, anything that is similar to a man's penis.. scrape them down and wash them and retain your privacy..
But.. listen.. you sound like a good girl.. you sound like a virgin.. you can break your virginity (hymen) by playing with yourself... I know the "itch" may be deep, but be carefull, save the full experience for when your with the man you love.. If you can, please stick to "natural".. fingers are the best thing.. good luck baby, and thanks for coming here to ask for advice.. I wish you a happy life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey man, i sanitize that thing before and after use, and no she doesnt know about it. but you are not helping the matter, and i need to know if there is a way i can get a butt plug or something for myself without my mom knowing. shes super conservative and it wouldn't go down. shed like have an exorcism done on me or some weird shit like that
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): ...as well flagrantly ignoring some serious hygiene issues. Sorry to be crude, but do you think it's fair of you to expect her to put that thing into her pussy after it's been up your ass?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2009): I hope you have her permission to use her vibrator. If not, you're kind of taking a liberty and invading her privacy.
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reader, texas_princess +, writes (22 November 2009):
 wow that's a tough one. I think most toy stores have an over 18 rule and ordering online is impossible without a credit card :( I'm all about people exploring their sexuality and believe me, most men like anal stimulation and just won't admit it haha. My advice is find someone you trust that's over 18 and ask for their help. Good luck!
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